Second of all, Denmark is a very non-hierarchical society, very flat structure.I think it’s fair enough to say most women will prefer a man with a steady job, but saying you have a top management position just means that you have to spend a lot of time working and not as much time with your family and friends. So instead, if you want to impress a Danish woman, talk about how your work benefits society at large, particularly how it benefits people who don’t have a lot of resources.People want to get it on, and they're caring less and less about when it's so-called 'appropriate' to happen.
And one from late last year: ”I’m a gay African American male who would like to date a Dane. ’ Basically, a lot of the mail I get is from men, wanting to know how they can get some action in Denmark. I know of several babies of mixed heritage here in Denmark. That’s because the process that works in much of the rest of the Western world doesn’t work in Denmark. But first, let me tell you another thing that will get you rejected.
While I can’t offer any personal insights on gay dating in Denmark, I can tell you that male-female dating in Denmark is hard, even for the Danes, and it will probably be hard for you too. In most parts of the world, a man will see a woman he likes, and he’ll approach her. Maybe he’ll ask if he can buy her a coffee, or some other type of drink. I’ll call it Manhattan behavior, because it was the way people dated when I lived in New York City.
We're so caught up in society's expectation of us that we disregard our own personal desires.
We're too busy trying to decipher what the other person is thinking that we don't listen to what we actually want.
Why put all this power and judgment into the Sex should not be viewed as an exchange of goods, whereby women give it as a “down payment” on a relationship and men receive it as a “thank you” for taking her out to dinner.
And having sex on the first date shouldn't negatively impact your chances of a long-term relationship. If you're feeling hot and you want it, then you should have absolutely no qualms about going for it.
For example, there are a lot of foreign engineers in Denmark. Creative industries, like design, and digital media, and video, are also popular in Denmark.
Don’t tell a girl, as I have seen done, ”Yeah, I’m an engineer, it’s pretty boring”. Another way to impress Danish women is showing how your work benefits the environment. My job is to rethink drilling to minimize the danger to the environment”. Whatever you do, frame it in a way to show how it’s helping people.
The How to Live in Denmark project was recently featured on DR.dk, the website of Denmark’s national broadcaster DR.
The journalist chose to focus on love and romance in Denmark.
People drink a lot of alcohol and go home with someone they don’t know well, and then figure out the day after if they want to get together for coffee.” “I see a lot of infidelity, and I believe that’s because in Denmark, everything is so secure.