The children that you will have no emotional attachment to. The kids are wonderful, very well-mannered, easygoing, and they like me a lot. His ex cheated on him, but since he loves his kids so much, they still talk everyday.
What's even worse is that his children like me more than their own mother and I still hate being their soon to be stepmom. But for my spouse's and I relationship, it never feels like ours. We always have to drop everything whenever his ex wants to go on a date. I know this because my boyfriend has all her facebook, email, and instagram passwords and he checks her stuff daily. Thank God I come from a culture with arranged marriages and parental involvement.
You need to accept that fact that you will be marrying him and his 1, 2, 3 , four or however many kids. I told him it's unhealthy but he says it's just to know where his kids are. It can be bad, but in my case it's good..emotions would have led me to say yes to him in the moment, but knowing we would have to have it cleared by my parents made us both realize that in no way would my parents approve a guy with such baggage.
Not his life and you just feel like your tagging along.
For this, I would receive "proportionate equity" but my name would apparently not be on the title. His excuse for not attending your wedding may be his non-verbal attempts at letting his father know that he disapproves his dating someone other than his mother.
This means that your boyfriend needs to work out his relationship with his son.
Well, there is a piece with you that hates the baggage part and that is something that you have to willfully accept it and move on.
Firstly, you should know that no matter what, his kids come are something that you can’t get rid off.For him, his kids will be the top and first choice. But, well let me tell you that, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care about you.It just simply means that he cares a tad more for his kids than anything else.Read: 8 Reasons You should be dating your best friend 2.He is more nurturing and sensitive Many single dads tend to develop some positive traits such as being more sensitive and nurturing personalities. In this, they will keep you feeling protected and warm.Sometimes we need our parents as an excuse to say what our mind knows but heart denies--that these guys are bad for us!!