Couldn’t you ‘experiment’ with one person for a few dates, see how it goes, and then move on? Do the people who you are dating know that you’re potentially wasting their time? As people no matter what they tell you, don’t always date for the same reasons, dating someone and getting to know them will let you determine through their actions and interactions (not just words and your imagination) whether you are two people on the same page with similar primary values.
[Read: 9 reasons your ideal man wish list isn’t working for you] Why it’s better to date more than just one guy at a time You may think that dating multiple guys makes you a cheater, but you’re not even official yet! Dating two or more guys doesn’t mean you should stop caring about their feelings.
And don’t worry about what your friends and family will think. Those who won’t, well, they don’t need to know, do they?
Next thing you know, you wake up to find yourself in a position that you were trying to avoid.
Things can escalate quickly so don’t blur the lines. I hope you can see where this could be an issue because if this is protocol for all the people you’re dating, well, that’s a problem.
I don’t want to get into a relationship too quickly?
The issues arise because not only do people bluster blindly through dating ignoring red flags and letting their libidos and imaginations make decisions for them, but we .
I felt no pressure on either date, and had a great time with both.
This realization came to me after I had actually succeeded in dating two women over the course of a weekend. I could probably think of some more reasons, but you should get my point by now.
If you’re respectful of the guys, then no feelings will get hurt.
And if you do it right, there’s very little downside.
It will be one of the greatest experiences you will ever have.