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Whether it's the way your brand new dress hugs every inch of your body, or you've got spaghetti sauce smeared across your face — you have to wonder what he's thinking and figure out how to tell if he's really into you. Surprisingly so, men are pre-programmed to send out physical clues when they're interested in a woman. Read this excerpt of Superflirt by Tracey Cox and learn how to decode any guy's body language with ease.Legend has it that men make the first move, then plead, cajole, wine, dine and basically bribe (via chocolates, flowers and dinner dates) women into their bachelor pads to either a) have their wicked way or b) get down on one knee.

If you’re trying to pick up what they’re putting down, these non-verbal cues can speak louder than words.

The Hands Things may start slowly, with a few tentative forays into body contact.

The average man chooses from a maximum of 10 to attract a female. Just in case you're not, I've included the obvious, along with signals that are more subtle, secretive and (occasionally) downright loony.

When we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. The whole thing lasts about a fifth of a second and it happens everywhere in the world — to everyone regardless of age, race or class.

You lock eyes with the handsome man sitting across the dimly lit bar, and instantly, 1,000 questions rip roar through your mind — is he single? Is he sitting by himself simply because his date is late?

But when the eye contact continues, you know he's looking for a reason.

Fran Greene, author of The Flirting Bible agrees: “Flirting is not seduction, [it’s] about practicing good social skills.” She admits, however, that even friendly flirting triggers the sympathetic nervous system, resulting in a host of body changes.

Though you can’t know how far things will go, here are some early physical signs flashing the message that you, or someone close by, have boarded the flirt train.

You’ve got to become a bit of a body language expert to interpret these quiet creatures, but with a little attention to detail you’ll easily spot the small signs he’s into you right away. Does he act differently around you than with his buddies?

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