That makes avoidance extremely difficult but I stick with what I know simply because his advances make me blush. Having herpes doesn’t make me afraid, but what it DOES is make me feel that I have to be so on top of my game in all other areas that when I do disclose to him, there’s less shock.
I can see things getting better for me financially in a few short months so maybe I’ll build up the courage to tell him then if he is still “keeping an eye on me” as he said he would do.
The main reason why I don’t want to disclose to him right now is because other areas of my life aren’t quite right at the moment.
I don’t need anything else adding to the potentially crushing blow that I could deliver to this budding “relationship”.
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Now, I’ve only let him know in so many words for only one reason. Despite being asymptomatic, I HATE having “the talk” with someone I really like. In all of my 11 years of carrying this virus, I never have and never will engage in sexual activity without disclosing to my partner FIRST.