Here are 17 of the ‘best’ answers from the thread: 1.’Drawing in their eyebrows.’ Look love, thanks to the great over-plucking massacre of 1999, most of us have some hefty gaps to fill in, so if you don’t mind, we’ll be over here with our Benefit brow kits, alright? ‘Being assertive/confident and being a bitch are not the same thing, but some women seem to think they are.’ Was somebody mean to you, poppet? That often works women (women will chase/try to get the guy who has many women into him), but it generally turns men off.’ *Sings* Double staaaaaaaaaandards. Luckily, the comments only represent the views of a handful of the male species on the world wide web, and not the hopefully less misogynistic versions we all know and love. The best friend with whom I had zero sexual attraction. There were men who have dropped me on my head, literally and figuratively. At some point, I yelled at almost all of these men for not being “what I wanted,” and, as we all do, turned to my female friends for consolation and support.
Men cannot get a better guide in relationships than Doc Love.
One of those insufferable TED talks was making the rounds last week. Not once, though, have I ever heard someone tell a man, “Dude, why are you dating her?
Going out and establishing a relationship with someone younger is not for everyone, of course, but I would argue that it actually makes a lot of sense.
In fact, I think the One Half Plus Nine formula is actually better for most male/female relationships.
Older women have limited patience for the shenanigans of youth, so stick to these five no-fail rules and you will be dating older women in no time.
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Of course, there is no formula for love, but generally speaking an older male will match up much better with a younger female for many, many reasons.
But there is one problem for many of us males that are starting our lives over: we have let ourselves go.
There have been certifiable crazies, like the Eastern European fellow who broke my bedroom window in a fit of rage and told me not to complain that he’d broken my “fucking window.” There was the Jersey boy who worked in women’s handbags; fond memories involve him drunk-puking at the Hilton, then giggling hysterically, running, and “hiding” our soiled comforter in front of someone else’s door down the hall. There was the dashing Argentinean only in town for a week; the Ronkonkoma deli worker barely old enough to drink; the beleaguered i-banker who came over regularly just to pass out on my couch.
There was the super-successful corporate honcho with a cardboard box for a nightstand. And I can’t forget the “totally eligible” magazine editor who moved to the suburbs while we were dating, convinced me to take a bus to visit him, showed off his two-story brick house with granite kitchen counters and an actual backyard, as if knowing it was exactly what I aspired to—and then promptly married someone else.
(We continued to date for at least a month after that.) Their ages have ranged from nearly 15 years younger than me to going on 15 years older. “You’re so much better than him.” Then, inevitably: “Why are New York men such assholes? New York City, to be fair, suffers its share of problems for the female dater.