The first couple of times we met we had a very spontaneous interaction. Just go with the flow and maybe the age difference won't even matter to you anymore. On a related matter, the physics/math/cs department is only a very small world where word goes arround very quickly.I just assumed she was arround my age (perhaps a bit younger, like 22-23 years old). I just found out she is 18-19 years old (first year college, whereas I am almost leaving college) and the whole thing seems so wrong now. If you really like her then why not give it a chance? Even though normally I care little what other people say, it would probably be somewhat inconvenient that people start saying that I was hitting on 18-19 year old girls.
even have a 28 year old who wanted to be with me recently and oh yeah can't forget the 31 year old.
That's fine, I've been with much older...she's legal and if you got along fine before you knew how old she was I really don't think there's a problem. Do'nt worry about it, if you're happy with her for the time being than it really shouldn't matter :)I'm 19 and dated older dudes....
Maine My friend who is 16 has been dating a guy who is 22 for roughly 8 months.
She was 15 when they started dating and I am unsure if he was 21.
), there are thousands of other instances of cross-generational relationships that die a quick, painless death. Because he was born in the 80’s, right about the time that you were losing your virginity in college. This is a valid concern to men looking to have families, so let’s not overlook it. It just seems far more likely that a) he’s bragging to his friends that he might get to sleep with a woman 20 years older than himself, or b) you guys really might be compatible if only he were significantly older or you were significantly younger. A caveat which I must acknowledge: if neither of you desires children, then you have a far better chance.
Because he’s been in the workforce for oh, about four years. But still, I’m a big proponent of life experience and wisdom. So even if this young man’s interest in you is completely pure, even if he wants to have a real relationship with you, you guys are most likely doomed. But presuming he does, if I were you, Carla, I’d probably have some fun. Maybe not all of them, and maybe not this particular guy, but most guys in their 20s think an older woman is easier and hornier than women their own age.
I have probably more dates than the average woman and I just can’t seem to find a guy I want to date.
I am often told I am beautiful and I look about 10 years younger than I my age. Let me use more words to say it: If you’re looking for a long-term relationship, you’re most likely wasting your time with this kid. If you’re looking for a long-term relationship, you’re most likely wasting your time with this kid.
And from a woman's POV: are "older" men within the boundaries of attraction or sometimes even "preferable"?
On a related matter, the physics/math/cs department is only a very small world where word goes arround very quickly.
What are the chances of this restraining order going into place? and can the fact that he kissed her while she was 15 be held against him?